I think being awesome at something means something different to everyone. You’ll come off as efficient to some and a dick to others.
Just like I come across as a bitch to those who do not believe my story and as I’m unreal to those who do …it’s all a matter of perspective yet what is frustrating is when your truth would be respected by all but you can’t tell it. Lucky you you were in the war didn’t even get PTSD got tons of accolades and acknowledgment for it and came out without scars
so I move on. 😊